If you’ve ever found yourself in a situation where you wanted to get close to a 인계동 룸싸롱 girl – and you wanted maybe to sleep with her, but you found a very careful around going in that direction with you, then you may have overlooked addressing some of her biggest fears Around sex with you, or even just getting intimate with you in any way, so in this video, I want to help you address some of the biggest fears around getting intimate with you or having sex with you and how to address them easily upfront so that These fears, basically don’t even pop up in our mind so much my name – is Stephan Erdman, I’m dedicated to helping you to attract women naturally without any kind of weird pick-up.
Bullshit. If you want to see my upcoming videos click the link here and also hit the notifications bell, so that you get the actual updates when I upload new videos now, here’s something that a lot of guys don’t realize women like good sex.
They love it probably more than us on average, so why do they not throw themselves at guys wherever they can, and why can they be so difficult to get used to this idea of having sex with you? The answer is simple they’re bigger risks associated with sex for women than for men when it comes to sex, despite all the condoms in the world, there is a real risk for women to get pregnant and it does happen in this day and age.
So this is a real fear for a 인계동 풀싸롱 girl, and it’s good for you to be aware of that. Women also fear being judged because of the sad tradition of slut, shaming women, and calling guys studs that sleep around okay, when everybody could just basically do the same thing and feel good about it, and women also are worried about what if it doesn’t go anywhere.
What if the sex is bad and they don’t want to see the guy again, will he get complicated, aggressive possessive? All of these things? There are many stories that I’ve heard from some of my female friends when guys you assume just because they’ve slept together once somehow they’re boyfriend and 인계동 girlfriend now and call them every minute of the day rather than letting things happen.
The step-by-step and just developed from there right guys can get control at that point, and women are worried about that. Women also fear guys, basically boasting about hooking up with them they’re, sometimes mutual friends, that’s a real fear because then women’s reputation can get ruined by basic people gossiping – and you know this happens, especially of course in high schools at universities and things like that.
Strangely, it never seems to negatively affect the reputation of the guy. Most often it’s seen as positive for the guy and negative for the girl. So that’s why? Even if a 인계동 룸싸롱 girl is turned on and ready to go, she will still probably play it cool unless she’s in a very specific situation and you’ve done some of the right things before that moment when she notices.
Yes, I’m into this guy, and actually, I want to sleep with him right now. So what are some things you can do? Well, you’ve got to address those three big fears. Number one you’ve got to prove to her that you’re not judgmental about women or anyone number two you’ve got to prove to her that, even though you are attracted to definitely – and you will want to get into her pants – and you might want to make that Quite clear, in a playful way that you are laid-back about sex, it doesn’t mean anything at that point and you’re, not gonna get possessive controlling oil, assume that you’re gonna be in a relationship because you are, you know, getting intimate with her number three.
You want to prove to her in some way that you are discreet, and that you care about her well-being and her reputation as much as your own and you’re, not gonna be boasting about sleeping with her after it happened to your friends or her friends or anybody Or put it on Facebook? So how do you do that? This is where stories can come in nicely.
If you want her to understand that use somebody that doesn’t judge people or women specifically, you can just tell a story about a friend of yours who may be very unconventional and how you admire the fact that she doesn’t care what people think and that she Just you know if she likes a guy, she goes for it and it doesn’t affect like there may be one or two people judging her, but she doesn’t care at all and she doesn’t take any shit from anybody about that.
If you have a friend like that that you admire greatly so tell that story to the second point, you can just bring up some of that, that you find completely weird. How sometimes guys can get so possessive or controlling, or they kind of think that you know you? Could they sleep with a girl once and some other in a relationship? How you find that quite strange and that you know that’s something that you know one or two of your female friends have told you about.
You can just throw in a quick comment about that and it will just sink in and she’ll just automatically understand that. That’s where you are coming from and it will allow her to feel safer with you now the last point about caring for her well-being.
Honestly, guys underestimate this, because they think somehow they have to be tough and show this interest and stuff. But you can, you can be playful all of that and still show that you care about her being safe and feeling good and comfortable and that you care about her reputation.
You can just do that by being a good guy, too. You know notice the little things where you can make sure she’s, okay and secondly, you can also throw in a little story about something, and you can do that literally by saying hey, you know I don’t post much on Facebook or Instagram or something I never understand.
What people have to put all their private moments online for everybody to see it’s a very strange thing: isn’t it then you get maybe into a quick conversation about that, but she’s understood that you’re not gonna be going around?
You know, saying hey. I slept with this in this 인계동 룸싸롱 girl and blah blah blah or you gonna talk to your mutual friends or something. At the same time, though, you want to be open with the fact that you find her attractive flirting with her teasing her saying stuff like, like oh you’re, very cute.
I’ve got to control myself here, you’re being a bad influence on me in a playful way. Now, all of those things are where you’re flirting when you’re teasing when you’re saying yes, I find you attractive, but at the same time, I’m super chilled about sex.
I’M super careful around your feelings because I want you to feel great and feel free with me and I’m not judgmental of women or myself or anybody, because I feel people should just do what they want to do now when they can bring those things across By your behavior, and by maybe one or two anecdotes or stories, you’ve just successfully removed the biggest fears that might be going around in a mind related to hooking up with you.
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